š” Motivation & Encouragement Techniques
At Eardley Education Solutions, we know that it is critical to reward your childās efforts just as much as their achievements. Their breakthroughs often come after theyāve seemed to have reached a plateau and are ready to give up. Those are the times they need the most encouragement. Here are some things you can do to help.
Break tasks into bite-sized steps. Instead of "do all your homework," try "complete 5 math problems" or "read one short story."
This makes the work less overwhelming and lets them experience quick wins. ā
Praise phrases like:
"I can see how hard you worked on this!"
"That was a tricky problem, and you didnāt give up."
This builds a growth mindset, showing that effort matters even when the result isnāt perfect. š±
Use a jar and fill it with marbles, tokens, or small notes each time they put in real effort.
When the jar is full, they choose a reward from a list you create together. š
Create a simple chart or sticker system where they can visually see their accomplishments
(e.g., ā5 days of focused reading = a starā). ā
Kids love seeing their progress grow!
If possible, study alongside them for short periods.
Doing your own work or reading nearby will help your child see that work is part of everyday life. š
Pick 1ā3 focus goals (e.g., reading for 15 mins, completing a worksheet, asking for help when stuck).
Each time they do one, they earn a ā or point.
At the end of the week, reward them with something they value:
A special snack šŖ
30 mins of extra screen time š±
A trip to the park or library š³
Picking the family movie š¬
Stay consistent, but flexibleālife happens, and not every day will be perfect.
Talk about feelingsāacknowledge their frustration or discouragement without trying to āfixā it right away.
Involve them in planningāask what kind of goals and rewards they would enjoy. This gives them ownership. š
Creating the mindset that their effort will lead to success is critical in every aspect of your childās life, not just in academics. Consistent effort in particular is the key to your childās future. Keeping them motivated isnāt always easy, to be sure. At Eardley Education Solutions, weāre ready to help.
Weāre here to answer any questions you might have and to show you how our Student Success Coordinators can make a difference in your childās education. Contact us today, and letās work together to create a bright future for your childāwithout the stress.